Day 60

60 days- I slipped when talking to him this am, and said 59...he reminded me it was 60...and when I logged on tonight I saw that he was right. We had a great conversation today as part of family therapy...covering friends he'd decided he'd had to let you, his sadness that some of the things he cared about might not b ethere when he got back...is focus on the future is still fairly narrow. He is fixated on getting back with his band-- and hoping that they will join him in his drug free life. He asked me to cal them, and let them know it was better "on the other side". While that may work out - it may not, and I'm concerned about building up his resources to be able to deal with what may be crushing disappointment.